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Do you know how to resolve conflict respectfully?

08th - 15th November 2024

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59993

Total votes

13330

5-11 votes

46663

11-16+ votes

'Choose Respect' was the theme for this year's Anti-Bullying Week and we asked young people to consider how to maintain respect during conflict resolution. They discussed how to deal with disagreements in a way that doesn't lead to resentment or future problems, before reflecting on how capable they are at solving conflict effectively in the moment. At VotesforSchools, we hope they came away from their lessons feeling empowered to work through any future issues constructively, and that school staff feel the benefits of their improved understanding of this issue.

Secondary, 16+ & College voters were asked: “Do you know how to resolve conflict respectfully?”, while Primary 7-11 voters discussed: “Do you know how to handle disagreements respectfully?”, and Primary 5-7 voters considered: “Can you disagree with someone respectfully?”

59,993 young people in the UK have taken part in this vote.

Age 5-11 voter

You have to compromise, be patient, use kind words and ask questions.

Age 11-16 voter

Agreeing to disagree is an important skill; it could help to prevent a lot of conflicts.

Age 11-16 voter

If people don't show you respect, it is challenging to give respect back. In some situations, it is harder to stay calm and respectful. However, we need to learn to control our emotions which will help with future conflicts.

Feedback from our impact partners

Thank you to Aoife Nic Colaim, Anti-Bullying Alliance for responding to voters on this topic!

75% of 7-11-year olds said they know how to handle disagreements respectfully.

  • Primary 5-7-year olds were discussing the question, "Can you disagree with someone respectfully?" and 82% said 'Yes'.
  • Meanwhile, 75% of 7-11-year olds said they know how to handle disagreements respectfully.
70% of Secondary students said they know how to resolve conflict respectfully.

  • 70% of Secondary students said 'Yes' to the question, "Do you know how to resolve conflict respectfully?"
  • Many stressed that an important part of conflict resolution can be 'agreeing to disagree'.
81% of College and older students agreed that they can be respectful during a disagreement.

  • 81% of College and older students said 'Yes' to the question, "Do you know how to resolve conflict respectfully?"
  • Some students said it depends on the situation, as some conflicts are more difficult to solve than others and that can make it more difficult to be respectful.
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