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Is it difficult to be a man?

28th March - 04th April 2025

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44460

Total votes

9582

5-11 votes

34878

11-16+ votes

Adolescence has been at the forefront of the national conversation recently, even sparking a discussion in Parliament around its themes of male violence and toxic masculinity. As young people are at the heart of the topic, we wanted to give them an opportunity to contribute to the discourse by sharing their thoughts and experiences. The lessons took a closer look at what it means to be a young man and to what extent this has changed over time. Our report details the breakdown of their votes and some of the main reasons they gave for their responses.

Secondary, College and 16+ students discussed, "Is it difficult to be a man?", while Primary 7-11 voters considered, "Are role models important to you?" and Primary 5-7 pupils were asked, "Do role models help you?"

44,460 young people responded to this VoteTopic.

child

Age 5-11 voter

I think role models are important because they can help you build your character and your personality and they can inspire you too.

teenager

Age 11-16 voter

We think that lots of the difficulties men face are put on themselves - this pressure to conform and 'be a man' often comes from other men and not women. It is harder to be a woman as we are afraid of violence by men.

student

Age 16+ voter

Girls have to deal with periods, double standards, expectations of what they can and can't do. - Boys are given more freedom, less restrictions. Held to a different standard.

76% of 7-11-year olds said that role models are important to them.

  • 5-7-year olds discussed the question, "Do role models help you?" and 80% voted 'Yes'.
  • Similarly, 76% of 7-11-year olds voted 'Yes' to the question, "Are role models important to you?"
There was a 50/50 split amongst Secondary students for the question, "Is it difficult to be a man?"

  • Secondary and College voters were discussing the question, "Is it difficult to be a man?"
  • Whilst there was a 50/50 split amongst Secondary students, 57% of College and 16+ students voted 'No'.
Many compared the struggles men and women face to explain their decision.

  • A common argument amongst both 'Yes' and 'No' voters was that women face many more societal struggles than men.
  • However, many said that men still face difficulties, often put on them by other men's expectations.
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